As a woman, you must refuse to struggle under any circumstances. There is no other way to do life than this. Unless you are actively refusing struggle, it will likely come to you—and you will not even realize that you are accepting people and situations that bring struggle into your life.
Struggle Is Not Your Destiny
You have to teach yourself how to hate even the thought of struggling for even a moment. Raise your standards to the point where struggle literally feels disgusting and revolting—and you would rather anything else. You would have to get away from struggle as much as you can.
When I say this, I mean any relationship or friendship where you feel like you have to struggle to maintain it. Where the person wants to struggle, wants to tell you about their struggles, and wants to keep you involved in a life of struggle. Or a job where you feel like it’s such a burden to show up, where it creates so much extra struggle in your life—stress scrambling to get there, extra strain, mistreatment, stress.
Run Toward Peace, Not Away from Pain
You literally have to run away from those things. At the same time, you have to put yourself in situations—little by little—in environments where there is no struggle. Because the truth is, some people have never struggled in their entire life. Some women have never known struggle. They have always been supported. They’ve always been comfortable. They’ve always been loved on by everyone around them, in every environment they’ve ever been in.
And for you? For most women, the average woman has experienced a good amount of struggle. And some women have only known struggle their entire lives—their whole childhoods. They came into this world already struggling from the beginning.
It’s Your Job to Unlearn Struggle
It’s your job as a woman. It’s nobody else’s job. Nobody’s coming to save you. It’s your job to unlearn all of that struggle, to get out of there, and to give yourself a better life. Because only you can do that for yourself. You are not here to survive—you are here to thrive.
