I made a video saying that if you do not have a degree, you do not have to work in healthcare or tech—and that there are plenty of other places you can work. And it’s come to my attention that a lot of you are antisocial. I have mentored plenty of antisocial women, and here’s what I tell them.
If You Don’t Want to Talk at All
Facilities management is great for those who don’t want to be nice but are okay with talking a little. You’re not required to be overly friendly; you just need to handle basic interactions about the building, maintenance, and logistics. It’s practical, task-oriented, and doesn’t demand emotional labor.
If You Want to Talk a Little but Focus on Systems
I recommend accounts payable, accounts receivable, billing, payroll, and that sort of thing. These roles keep you focused on numbers, systems, and processes rather than people. You interact with colleagues occasionally, but the bulk of your work is independent and detail-oriented—perfect for introverts who want structure.
If You Want to Talk a Bit More but Stay Focused on Processes
Procurement and supply chain are also good for that. These roles involve some communication with vendors and internal teams, but the focus is on systems, logistics, and optimization. You’re not expected to be a social butterfly—you just need to get the job done efficiently.
If You’re Okay with Talking but Not in Person
Then you’re going to like insurance, loan processing, and claims processing. All of this is over the phone. You can handle everything remotely, with clear scripts and structured conversations. There’s no face-to-face pressure, and you can manage interactions in a controlled, predictable way.
The key takeaway: you don’t have to force yourself into a career that drains you. There are plenty of well-paying, stable roles that respect your need for space and autonomy. You just have to know where to look.
